For any questions not answered here, please contact Perry Mann via email: perrymann73 at

Are you planning to bring back the Ball?
Yes, we are.

Are you involved with, or endorsing any Halloween party or event for 2014
No, we are not doing that this year (and we will probably never do that again).

Are you guys doing anything for 2014?

We are hard at work compiling footage for our 30 Year Documentary entitled "The Exotic Erotic Ball - XXX Years and Counting."

Didn't you plan to release the documentary a few years ago?

Yes. It was delayed due to the sad and untimely death of our great and talented friend, Zalman King.

How is the documentary now being produced?
We have secured a top filmmaker and editor. That team is controlling the content, not us. Our goal is to help create an acclaimed film, one that covers the Ball and its history in an objective manner.

If I have a great story involving the Ball, can I submit it for inclusion into the documentary?

You can send us an email to initiate discussion, but there are no guarantees - the film covers 30 years of history and we don't want it to run too long. Some submissions might not make it into the film, but might make it into the "Extra's". If the documentarian is interested in your story, he'll reach back.

How do I get a copy of the documentary?
Join our mailing list, and stay tuned for an update. We are considering offering the documentary and many other cool things as rewards in a crowd funding campaign on Kickstarter.

So - is the plan to bring back the Ball after the documentary is ready for release?
Yes. That is what Perry wants to do... so it shall be done. Look for us in 2015.

All of us here are so grateful for the emails and kind words.
We miss the Ball at least as much as you do. When it comes back, it will have been worth the wait.

If you are not on the Mailing List, please join now for updates.

The rest of the website below is unchanged from how it appeared on 10/21/2010.

Q: How old do you need to be to go to the Exotic Erotic Ball and/or Expo?
A: For the Ball, 21 and over - with ID, please. For the Expo, 18 and over.
Q: Will there be a place for me to check my coat?
A: Yes, there will be a coat check as soon as you enter.
Q: Will there be a place for me to check what I buy at the exhibitor booths so I don't have to carry it around?
A: Yes the coat check will also serve as a merchandise check. And many vendors will also agree to hold merchandise for you and you can pick it up from them later..
Q: Can I take still pictures?
A: Yes, you can take pictures. Cameras and camera-phones are allowed for still photography.
Q: Can I shoot video?
A: Nope, sorry, not unless you work for the Ball or you are with an approved media outlet, with necessary credentials.
Q: Will there be food and drink?
A: Of course. There will be many bars and many beverage choices, hard and soft.
Q: How does parking work?
A: Our new venue has a gigantic parking lot with tons of available space, and they control all parking.
Q: Can I take a cab or limo to the event?
A: Yes you can. But please make arrangements for a return pick-up.
Q: What if I have Special Needs?
A: We are very accommodating. Send us an email at
Q: Do I need to dress up for the Ball and if so, in what fashion?
A: The dress-up is not a requirement, but it is a big part of the show. We highly recommend everyone dressing in lingerie, pajamas, fetish, masquerade or costume. Dress as sexy as you want. Our motto is: Everyone's A Star at the Exotic Erotic Ball. That means you're a Star too, so f*cking dress like one ! Side note: We will be holding our three famous contests and having other drawings with $10,000 in cash and prizes. Ms. Exotic Erotic, Mr. Exotic Erotic and the Costume Contest are the three big contests. Everyone who attends is welcome to try and qualify.
Q: What should I wear to the Ball?
A: This question is so important, we asked it twice. Wear lingerie, fetish attire, masquerade, costume, pajamas or something that makes you look outrageously sexy!
Q: Is nudity allowed?
A: We post signs everywhere that say: No Public Nudity...but do people listen? The Official policy is "no public nudity". Besides - if you were buck naked, where would you keep your ID? (Don't answer that!)
Q: Is "groping" allowed?
A: No, dude, you just can't start groping people. Try to imagine that you had a normal upbringing for a minute - would you want people indiscriminately groping you? We'll answer that for you if you're having trouble - no, you would not. At the Exotic Erotic Ball, the operative word is respect. If you keep in mind that lots of people are feeling sexy and aroused, then you will realize that it is OK to ask someone if you can touch. Yes - it is OK to ask. But do respect the answer. If it's not the answer you wanted, then ask someone else. Remember - if you grope, you leave. But - if it is consensual, then ... well ... then it's not really groping, it's fondling.
Q: Is there an After Party this year?
A: Yes, details will be right on the home page of our website.
Q: Should I buy a General Admission ticket or a VIP ticket to the Ball?
A: The General Admission ticket will allow you access to the five main stages, including the main stage with the musical acts & contests, plus the Burlesque Stage with the exotic & erotic performances, the Fetish Stage and Dungeon, the Bling Bling electronic stage, and the Asian Diva Girls stage. You'll also have access to the Expo featuring erotic art, exotic fashion, sexy products, adult games, toys & novelties, and the Spiritual Oasis with erotic massage, sex potions, tarot readings, and so much more.

The VIP ticket will allow you the following extras: priority red carpet entry into the Ball, a special VIP reception with celebrities and porn stars from 9pm to 10:30pm, a private VIP room with complimentary hors d'oeuvres, special performances, music, and interactive side shows, plus backstage access where you can mingle with the celebrities and adult stars. VIP's also get a few extra's like souvenirs and goodie bags with special treats and coupons. And - this is a new - if you buy VIP tickets to the Ball, you also get tickets to go to the Expo on Friday (or Sat afternoon, your choice) for FREE.
Q: Will you be selling tickets at the door?
A: Yes, you can buy tickets at the door for the Ball or the Expo.
Q: If I order tickets now, how do I get them?
A: When you order tickets now, we will mail them to you.
Q: Is there another way to order tickets besides the internet?
A: If you want to order by phone or in person, no problem! Call our hotline at 415-567-2255 and we will get back with you. If the messages are full, try back again soon, we clear the messages frequently.
Q: Tell me more about the Exotic Erotic Expo and do I want to go to both that and the Ball?
A: The Expo is a great event for anybody interested in erotic art, exotic fashion, the latest in adult toys, websites, and novelties, or a quieter version of the Ball without wearing an elaborate costume. It is a perfect place to shop for outfits for the Ball, and it has a lot of previews of the Ball, so it is very entertaining. If you are interested in a great time at a lesser price featuring top stars in adult entertainment, you don't want to miss the Expo.

Over the past few years, many people have told us that at $20, the Expo is an amazing deal. It is open on Friday, Oct 22, from 4pm to Midnight, and Saturday, Oct 23 from Noon to 6pm (each day only $20). And it is also open at night as part of the Ball, for Ball ticket holders only.
Q: What is the best way for me to make sure I get the latest information as it becomes available?
A: Please join our email mailing list. Click here
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